Beginner-Friendly Couples Sex Toys
Curious about using sex toys together but not sure where to start? You're not alone. Many couples want to explore toys to enhance their connection, increase pleasure, and break out of routine — but worry about choosing something too advanced, intimidating, or just not quite right.
In this guide, we’ll explore the best beginner-friendly couples sex toys — focusing on comfort, ease of use, and mutual enjoyment.
Why Start with Couples Toys?
Using a sex toy together isn't just about physical sensation — it's about play, communication, and discovering what makes each other tick in a relaxed, low-pressure way.
Benefits include:
- More intense orgasms and stimulation
- New ways to connect emotionally and physically
- Better understanding of each other’s bodies
- A fun way to build intimacy and confidence
Not sure how to bring it up? Our Guide to Introducing Sex Toys into Your Relationship walks you through the conversation step-by-step.
What Makes a Toy “Beginner-Friendly”?
Beginner couples toys should be:
- Non-intimidating in size and appearance
- Easy to use (no complex remotes or learning curve)
- Mutually pleasurable — not focused on just one person
- Quiet and discreet for privacy and comfort
- Body-safe, with smooth, soft-touch materials like silicone
Let’s explore some of the most popular starter toys that tick every box.
Top Beginner Couples Sex Toys to Try First
1. Vibrating Cock Rings
These snug rings are worn at the base of the penis and often feature a vibrating motor that stimulates both partners during penetrative sex. Some even target the clitoris with each thrust.
Why beginners love them:
- Adds stimulation for both partners
- Easy to use and wear
- Helps maintain erections
- Small and discreet
Explore our Vibrating Cock Rings Collection to find soft, stretchy options perfect for first-timers.
2. Bullet Vibrators
Small, powerful, and incredibly versatile, bullet vibrators can be used during foreplay or intercourse to stimulate the clitoris, nipples, perineum — wherever feels good.
Why beginners love them:
- Easy to hold and control
- Can be used solo or together
- Great introduction to external stimulation
Pair it with a partner during foreplay or position it during sex for enhanced clitoral stimulation.
3. Remote-Controlled Love Eggs
These discreet internal vibrators can be controlled by a partner, making them ideal for playful, adventurous couples — whether at home or in public (with consent).
Why beginners love them:
- Great for power exchange and teasing
- Usually come with simple remotes or app control
- Adds spontaneity and surprise to sex
Check out our What Is a Love Egg? Guide to learn more about how to use them confidently.
4. Under-Bed Restraint Kits or Soft Bondage Toys
Don’t worry — we’re not talking hardcore kink gear. Soft cuffs, blindfolds, or silky ties can introduce sensory play and anticipation into your sex life without pressure.
Why beginners love them:
- Focuses on trust and connection
- Easy to use, soft materials
- Adds a little mystery and excitement
Our Beginner Bondage Sets are ideal for couples wanting to try something new — safely and playfully.
5. Couples Vibrators
These are designed to be worn during intercourse, providing hands-free stimulation for both partners. Many are shaped to fit between bodies, offering internal and external pleasure.
Why beginners love them:
- Designed for joint stimulation
- Often comes with multiple settings
- Compact and ergonomic
Try a wearable vibrator with remote control for added versatility.
Tips for Trying Toys Together for the First Time
- Talk before and after – check in on comfort levels and what felt good
- Use lube – it makes everything smoother (literally and figuratively)
- Start slow – no pressure to “perform”
- Clean together – it’s part of the aftercare and keeps toys safe
Need help with hygiene? Our Sex Toy Cleaning Guide covers everything you need to know.
❓ FAQ: Couples Toys for Beginners
Are couples toys only for people in long-term relationships?
Not at all. Whether you’ve been together a month or a decade, couples toys can add fun and build trust.
Will using a toy replace my partner?
No — good toys enhance intimacy, not replace it. They’re a tool for connection, not a substitute for affection or touch.
Do we need to use the toy during sex?
Not necessarily. Many couples use toys just for foreplay or mutual exploration — there's no one “right” way.
What's the quietest toy for shared use?
A bullet vibrator or remote love egg — both are discreet and beginner-approved.
Final Thoughts: Keep It Light, Keep It Fun
Trying sex toys as a couple shouldn’t feel like a performance — it’s about experimenting, laughing, discovering new sensations, and growing closer. Start small, stay curious, and always keep the focus on connection and consent.
Ready to explore together? Our adult toy range has everything you need to get started — with no pressure, no judgment, and plenty of pleasure.